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27 Non-School Skills Children Need

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August 28, 2012

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27 Non-School Skills Children Need

The mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be kindled.

– Plutarch –

27 Non-School Skills Children Need

“When you got out of high school, did you know everything you needed in order to survive in life, let alone succeed? If you were lucky, you knew how to read and had some basic history and math skills, and if you were even luckier, you had good study habits that would serve you well in college. But were you prepared for life? Most likely not, unless you had parents who did you that favor. In fact, many of us screwed up our early adult lives because we didn’t know those skills — and we’re paying the consequences now. That’s a part of life, you might say, learning these lessons. But it’s also possible to prepare your child a bit before they go out on their own, and if we can’t get the schools to teach these skills, then let’s do it ourselves. What follows is a basic curriculum in life that a child should know before reaching adulthood.” Leo Babauta shares further. { read more }

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InnerNet Weekly: One February Morning in Vietnam

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One February Morning in Vietnam
by Eugene Hilderbrandt

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812.jpgIt was another morning in Chu Lai, Vietnam — a large and ugly army base where I was. One February morning, as I avoided the mud puddles in my morning duty, I found myself standing on top of a drive-up ramp.

Looking through the mists toward distant purple mountains, I suddenly became aware that I WAS those mountains and they were me. The now perfect little mud puddles were as much me as my fingers. The olive drab trucks, the concertina wire, the things that had always possessed a negative connotation in my mind were simply … man’s folly!

Another GI, whom I barely knew, walked across the compound and I experienced a love beyond words for him, a realization that he was me wearing his own personal disguise. I was immersed in this joy that I had never even heard of — no separation from anything or anyone, no judgment of the world around me. Later, when I attempted to explain what I’d experienced with words, the only word that came close was one-ness.

Less than 2 weeks later, I was at LZ Bronco and was looking through a meager dozen or so collection of books left by earlier tenants and I saw this curious title, "The Book … on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are" by Alan Watts. When he began describing the experience I recently had, it triggered the experience again, only this time as I immediately tried to hold on to it, to keep it, it dissolved, like quick-silver through my fingers.

A few months later, as I prepared to return "to the world" — America — I thought, "Okay, I now know some important truths. Life will be easier, more simple." Instead, it has become more challenging than ever. But those experiences changed this Southern Baptist bred Okie for life. I am thankful every day for the grace that I received that February morning along with the realization that this beautiful state of being belongs to every single being of every color, culture or persuasion on earth.

Although I have pursued, even lusted after the Oneness experience I’d had, like a donkey chasing a carrot on a stick, I have slowly and painfully come to realize that only through knowing and then having the compassion to love myself just as I am and accepting completely this wonderfully terrible world just as it is, will I be able to open my heart to the state that is always there, that makes the pain and the fear of self-discovery so worth the journey I’m on.

–Eugene Hilderbrandt

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Year of Dancing with Life – Week 47

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The Literary Physician & How Stories Heal

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The Literary Physician & How Stories Heal

Life offers its wisdom generously. Everything teaches. Not everyone learns.

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The Literary Physician & How Stories Heal

When physician-writer William Carlos Williams was asked how he managed his dual careers, he replied, “It’s no strain. In fact, the one nourishes the other, even if at times I’ve groaned to the contrary.” It’s a philosophy shared by Rita Charon, director of a new program in narrative medicine at Columbia University, where students and clinicians learn to shape the fragments of medical work — a symptom, a conflict, a difficult conversation — into coherent narratives that reflect not only their points of view but also the patient’s. Here, Charon explains how a habit of narrative writing can change the way a medical professional sees her patients and herself. { read more }

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Quote of the Week | Enduring Success

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August 27, 2012

ENDURING SUCCESS

It is often seen that human beings can endure problems quite well, but cannot endure success. When we are successful and have everything we desire, it can easily go to our heads. There is a great danger of losing our common sense and becoming careless and arrogant. As it is said, “Nothing corrupts a person more than power.” Very powerful people sometimes become so proud that they no longer care about their actions or about the effect they have on others. Losing any sense of right and wrong, they create severe problems for themselves and everyone else.

Even if we have all the success we could dream of—fame, wealth, and so on—we must understand that these things have no real substance. Attachment does not come from having things, but from the way our mind reacts to them. It is fine to participate in good circumstances, provided we can see that they have no real essence. They may come and they may go. When seeing this, we will not become so attached. Even if we lose our wealth we will not be badly affected, and while it is there we will enjoy it without being senseless and arrogant.

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Smile Newsletter: Quiet Acts Of Kindness In Her Hour of Sorrow

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“We have lived our lives by the assumption that what was good for us would be good for the world. We have been wrong. We must change our lives so that it will be possible to live by the contrary assumption, that what is good for the world will be good for us. And that requires that we make the effort to know the world and learn what is good for it.– Wendell Berry
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190.jpg“My husband and I heard about his coworker having a fire at their house. We debated whether or not we could afford to donate to the collection. Then it occurred to me that even though I didn’t have enough to pay our bills this week, those people did’t have clothes to send their daughter to school the next day!! We donated $50.00 and will figure out how to make due, meanwhile being thankful for what we do have.” — myfbil

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The Billion Euro House

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August 26, 2012

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The Billion Euro House

Money often costs too much.

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The Billion Euro House

In January 2012, at the height of the economic crisis in Ireland and the rest of Europe, artist Frank Buckley was faced with the possibility of his home being repossessed. In a remarkable twist of fate, Frank set out to build himself a new home using shredded Euro banknotes and aptly named it “The Billion Euro House.” Through The Billion Euro House, Frank seems to ask us “What is the true value of money?” { read more }

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Managing Emotions in the Workplace

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Managing Emotions in the Workplace

Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.

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Managing Emotions in the Workplace

You know the type: coworkers who never have anything positive to say, whether at the weekly staff meeting or in the cafeteria line. They can suck the energy from a brainstorming session with a few choice comments. Their bad mood frequently puts others in one, too. Their negativity can contaminate even good news. “We engage in emotional contagion,” says Sigal Barsade, a Wharton management professor who studies the influence of emotions on the workplace. “Emotions travel from person to person like a virus.” { read more }

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Video of the Week: 75-Year Old Bodybuilding Grandma

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75-Year Old Bodybuilding Grandma

75-Year Old Bodybuilding Grandma

“If there ever was an anti-aging pill, I would call it exercise,” says Ernestine Shepherd. Behold the breathtakingly magnanimous story of Ernestine, who at the tender age of 71, started competitive bodybuilding. Her true motivational message is to inspire others to exercise and eat correctly. As Ernestine says, “Age is nothing but a number.” So watch this BBC video report and join the revolution — it is never too late to exercise and feel healthy.
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Can We Design Cities for Happiness?

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Can We Design Cities for Happiness?

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Can We Design Cities for Happiness?

Happiness itself is a commons to which everyone should have equal access. That’s the view of Enrique Penalosa , who is not a starry-eyed idealist given to abstract theorizing. He’s actually a politician, who served as mayor of Bogota, Colombia, for three years, and now travels the world spreading a message about how to improve quality-of-life for everyone living in today’s cities. Penalosa’s ideas stand as a beacon of hope for cities of the developing world, which even with their poverty and immense problems will absorb much of the world’s population growth over the next half-century. Based on his experiences in Bogota, Penalosa believes it’s a mistake to give up on these cities as good places to live. { read more }

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