The Oppressor and the Oppressed must both be Liberated
by Nelson Mandela
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 I always knew that deep down in every human heart, there is mercy and generosity. No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite. Even in the grimmest times in prison, when my comrades and I were pushed to our limits, I would see a glimmer of humanity in one of the guards, perhaps just for a second, but it was enough to reassure me and keep me going. Man’s goodness is a flame that can be hidden but never extinguished.
It was during those long and lonely years that my hunger for the freedom of my own people became a hunger for the freedom of all people, white and black. I knew as well as I knew anything that the oppressor must be liberated just as surely as the oppressed. A man who takes away another man’s freedom is a prisoner of hatred, he is locked behind the bars of prejudice and narrow-mindedness. I am not truly free if I am taking away someone else’s freedom, just as surely as I am not free when my freedom is taken from me. The oppressed and the oppressor alike are robbed of their humanity.
When I walked out of prison, that was my mission, to liberate the oppressed and the oppressor both. Some say that has now been achieved. But I know that that is not the case… We have not taken the final step of our journey, but the first step on a longer and even more difficult road. For to be free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others. The true test of our devotion to freedom is just beginning.
About the Author: From Nelson Mandela’s autobiography: Long Walk to Freedom.
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The Oppressor and the Oppressed must both be Liberated
How do you relate to the notion that the oppressor must be liberated just as surely as the oppressed? Can you share a personal story of a time when you felt deeply connected to both oppressor and oppressed? What helps you live a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others? |
| Kristin Pedemonti wrote: Wow, this is timely given our current political campaigns in the US. I see so much hatred, yet my initial response in compassion. How hurt this person and these people must be to react with suc… |
| david doane wrote: I agree with Nelson Mandela that the oppressor is a prisoner just as much as the oppressed. I believe the arrangement is like a teeter-totter where it takes two to keep it going. I’ve bee… |
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