From Being Driven To Being Drawn
by Richard Rohr
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 When I was a young man, I liked ideas and books quite a lot, and I still read a great deal. But each time I come back from a long hermitage retreat, I have no desire to read a book for the next few weeks or even months. For a while I know there is nothing in any book that is going to be better, more truthful, or more solid than what I have just experienced on the cellular, heart, and soul level.
If you asked me what it is I know, I would be hard pressed to tell you. All I know is that there is a deep “okayness” to life—despite all the contradictions—which has become even more evident in the silence. Even when much is terrible, seemingly contradictory, unjust, and inconsistent, somehow sadness and joy are able to coexist at the same time. The negative value of things no longer cancels out the positive, nor does the positive deny the negative.
Whatever your personal calling or your delivery system for the world, it must proceed from a foundational “yes” to life. Your necessary “no” to injustice and all forms of un-love will actually become even clearer and more urgent in the silence, but now your work has a chance of being pure healing instead of impure anger and agenda. You can feel the difference in people who are working for causes; so many works of social justice have been undone by people who do all the fighting from their small or angry selves.
If your prayer goes deep, your whole view of the world will change from fear and reaction to deep and positive connection—because you don’t live inside a fragile and encapsulated self anymore. In meditation, you are moving from ego consciousness to soul awareness, from being driven by negative motivations to being drawn from a positive source within.
Through a consistent practice of contemplative prayer you will find yourself thinking much more in terms of both/and rather than either/or. This is what enables mystics and saints to forgive, to let go of hurts, to be compassionate, and even to love their enemies.
About the Author: Adapted from Richard Rohr, Dancing Standing Still: Healing the World from a Place of Prayer
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From Being Driven To Being Drawn
How do you relate to the deep “okayness” to life despite all the contradictions? Can you share a personal story of a time you were able to shift from being driven by negative motivations to being drawn from a positive source within? What helps you remain aware of the choice between pure healing and impure anger and agenda? |
| Jagdish P Dave wrote: To divide the reality into either/ or perpetuates the stance of me against you.This kind of stance breaks relationships on all levels and results in the so-called “Holy Wars” that have bee… |
| david doane wrote: Life is a mixed bag, full of contradictions and dialectics that we live in the midst of and deal with. That’s life. I certainly can be negative, and have become more positive as I have be… |
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Editor’s note: Moral elevation occurs when our behavior is uplifted by an act of uncommon goodness. It brings out what Abraham Lincoln called “the better angels of our nature”. Moral elevation leads us to look at our common humanity – that which connects us, rather than that which divides us. It allows us to see the light and potential good in all of us. Ultimately, what unites us is much stronger than what divides us.
