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Grace In The Classroom

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Weekly Reading Mar 25, 2024

Grace In The Classroom

–Frances Su

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2684.jpgI want to demonstrate to my students that their worthiness does NOT depend on the grades they earn in my class. Of course, I want to give my C students the same attention that my A students get. But if I am really honest with myself, I have to admit I like talking to A students, because they “get it”… they already speak the same language.

But what credit is it to me as a teacher, if I only affirm the students who already “get it”? It’s easy to affirm the student who asks great questions in class, but I must be thoughtful about how can I affirm the questions from a struggling student. Or the one who comes from a different cultural background. Or the one whose educational system didn’t provide them with the tools they need. How can I affirm these students?

I like to tell them the struggle is the more interesting place to be: because a healthy confusion is where the real learning begins. Just like in life, the most meaningful lessons are learned when our afflictions and struggles are greatest.

But I want to be clear: I am not saying extending grace is a recipe for helping my students feel good about themselves. I am saying it will help them have a right understanding about themselves. So if my students know in their bones that I have given them a dignity that is independent of their performance, then I can have honest conversations with them about their performance. I can judge their work justly AND graciously. In fact, failing a student CAN be done with grace, so that the student understands their dignity has not been tarnished even though their work has been justly assessed—just as a parent can discipline her child if the child knows her love is unconditional. Grace is precisely what makes hard conversations possible, and productive, between people. But you have to extend the grace first.

I want the failing student to understand clearly that grades are just an assessment, not a sentence. I try to meet with every failing student in person, and I will explicitly articulate the distinction between their grade, and their worthiness. I will often give them this explicit word of encouragement: that while grades attempt to measure what you have learned, they do not measure your dignity as an individual.

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Never Too Late: Becoming a World Champion at 40

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March 25, 2024

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Never Too Late: Becoming a World Champion at 40

Success is not the absence of failure; it’s the persistence through failure.

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Never Too Late: Becoming a World Champion at 40

Deanna Stellato-Dudek, a retired figure skater, made history at the ripe athletic age of 40, becoming the oldest woman ever to win a World Figure Skating Championship. After a series of injuries pushed her to retire from skating at the age of 17 in 2001, Stellato-Dudek went on with her life — becoming a successful aesthetician and getting married. The unfinished saga of her athletic journey, though, drew her back. In her 30s, the trailblazer rekindled her love for ice, this time as a pairs skater, taking on the dangers of the sport and competing with talented athletes half her age. She endures two to three extra hours of training nightly to prepare her 40-year-old body for training the next day. Her extraordinary journey symbolizes that it’s never too late to chase your dreams. She proudly owns her age, encouraging not only athletes but everyone everywhere not to stop short or hold back from reaching their potential. { read more }

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Hug Therapy Revolution in Argentina

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Hug Therapy Revolution in Argentina

The unselfish effort to bring cheer to others will be the beginning of a happier life for ourselves.

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Hug Therapy Revolution in Argentina

Welcome to the world of hug therapy, where Irma Castro and her volunteer squad are making strides in neonatal care in Córdoba, Argentina. Part of a public maternity hospital initiative, these ‘huggers’ offer their warmth and touch to premature and underweight babies, whose mothers may be absent due to countless circumstances. From aiding neurodevelopment to stimulating weight gain, the power of a human embrace is helping these newborns grow faster and gain weight. This program, with over 50 currently active volunteers and 200+ waiting to join, steams from the heart of community and family involvement in public hospitals of Córdoba. The hands-on commitment of the huggers showcase the transformative power of affection in healthcare. { read more }

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Offer someone a hug today. Step-it-up by getting involved with a similar hug therapy program in your community.

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On Persistence: Conversation with Jerry Barrish

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On Persistence: Conversation with Jerry Barrish

We are made to persist. That’s how we find out who we are.

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On Persistence: Conversation with Jerry Barrish

“I’d just gotten out of the Army and when I came home, I was looking for work. My father, who was a boxer, knew Mickey Cohen. And when Cohen got out of Alcatraz, there was a big party at the Fairmont Hotel. Jerry was there with his dad and ended up sitting next to the bail bondsman who’d bailed Cohen out. You should get into the bail bonds business,” he told Jerry. “I was 22 years old. I didn’t have a clue about how bail worked.” In this interview, artist Jerry Barrish tells a tale that could not have been made up. { read more }

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We often feel trapped in our routines. At the same time, one never knows when an opening might appear. It could happen just from striking up a conversation with a stranger.

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Richard Jefferies: On Nature as a Portal to Self-Transcendence

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Richard Jefferies: On Nature as a Portal to Self-Transcendence

To be beautiful and to be calm, without mental fear, is the ideal of nature.

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Richard Jefferies: On Nature as a Portal to Self-Transcendence

In his 1884 masterpiece ‘The Life of the Fields,’ Richard Jefferies extols the poetic prowess of nature, emphasizing that by paying attention to the beauty of nature, we can dissolve the boundaries between ourselves and the world. Such an immersive experience in nature is perceived as momentous and transformative. “These are the only hours that are not wasted – these hours that absorb the soul and fill it with beauty. This is real life, and all else is illusion, or mere endurance,” Jefferies declares. Maria Popova unravels the brilliant philosophy of self-educated British nature writer Richard Jefferies, drawing a link to his influence on exceptional nonfiction writers like Rachel Carson, Oliver Sacks, and Janna Levin. { read more }

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Take a moment to unplug from the digital world and immerse yourself in nature. Experience the poetic beauty of your surroundings – the rustling leaves, the singing birds, the vibrant flowers, the clear blue sky. Fill your heart with these miracles of nature that we often take for granted.

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An Island off an Island

This week’s inspiring video: An Island off an Island
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An Island off an Island

An Island off an Island

The film "An Island off An Island," explores the lives of Jenene Oates and John Bullock who have carried on for 20 years living a simple life together in Bruny — an island off the island of Tasmania, at the bottom end of Australia. The film gently explores the benefits and challenges of living a simple life on an island. What is revealed is how much we are all missing when we fill our lives with the distractions of modern life that erode our need for inner creativity as well as community to fulfill our days. Jenene and John demonstrate how modern technology and conveniences are not in and of themselves wrong but may lead us astray when we overvalue quick and easy solutions to our everyday needs. Rather, there is a simple richness to be found in life by spinning a potter’s wheel, making bread, and growing a garden for food. Using the resources at hand and asking for neighborly help from within the community become blessings rather than challenges when living on an island.
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In a Bomb Shelter Under Kyiv, a Professor Taught Peace

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In a Bomb Shelter Under Kyiv, a Professor Taught Peace

The first step in the evolution of ethics is a sense of solidarity with other human beings.

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In a Bomb Shelter Under Kyiv, a Professor Taught Peace

When the war in Ukraine started, like many people, Professor David Dowling felt helpless. “I couldn’t shake off the idea that I wanted to do something more,” Dowling told ABC News. Last fall, he travelled from Pepperdine University in California to war-torn Kyiv to teach a course in conflict and dispute resolution at Taras Shevchenko National University. “Being with these students, with these amazing young people, and seeing what they live with on a day-to-day basis — they welcomed me with such love and enthusiasm,” Dowling recalled. “Five minutes into class, the air raid sirens started.” Accustomed to this, the students calmly evacuated to a bomb shelter four floors below their classroom while guiding Dowling along with them. Circled up in the bomb shelter, with war raging above them, Dowling continued teaching conflict resolution. “In our nature, we are made to adapt. … Mediation is a great skill for everyone’s day to day life,” law student Oleksandra Chornyi remarked. Fellow classmate Mariia Nazarenko described, “We’re having a war, and everyday people become more aggressive. Everything Mr. Dowling taught us helps for understanding how to communicate with people.” Dowling was equally inspired by the students applications of mediation into their aspirations in law and life. { read more }

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93-Year-Old Grandmother’s Secret to a Meaningful Life

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93-Year-Old Grandmother's Secret to a Meaningful Life

For it is in giving that we receive.

– St. Francis of Assisi –

93-Year-Old Grandmother’s Secret to a Meaningful Life

When Ioanna Matsouka, 93, took up knitting in the 1990s, she had no idea she’d end up knitting over an estimated 3,000 scarves over the next three decades. At first, she gifted them to friends. As her creations grew in quantity, she began donating them to children’s shelters across Greece. Through acquaintances, her warm creations have found their way to children in Bosnia and Ukraine. U.N. refugee agency UNHCR delivered her most recent batch of 70 scarves to a refugee camp near Athens this winter. “Until I die, I will be knitting,” Matsouka told Reuters. “It brings me joy to share them.” Her daughter Angeliki noted, “The fact that we give them away gives her strength.” From her small Athens apartment, Matsouka knits one scarf a day, even with health conditions including impaired vision and trigeminal neuralgia, which involves bouts of severe facial pain. It’s worth the effort, though, she explains: “It’s the happiness I get from giving.” { read more }

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Organizing With Love

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Weekly Reading Mar 18, 2024

Organizing With Love

–adrienne maree brown

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2690.jpgMy favorite life forms right now are dandelions and mushrooms—the resilience in these structures, which we think of as weeds and fungi, the incomprehensible scale, the clarity of identity, excites me. I love to see the way mushrooms can take substances we think of as toxic, and process them as food, or that dandelions spread not only themselves but their community structure, manifesting their essential qualities (which include healing and detoxifying the human body) to proliferate and thrive in a new environment. The resilience of these life forms is that they evolve while maintaining core practices that ensure their survival.

A mushroom is a toxin-transformer, a dandelion is a community of healers waiting to spread… What are we as humans, what is our function in the universe?

One thing I have observed: When we are engaged in acts of love, we humans are at our best and most resilient. The love in romance that makes us want to be better people, the love of children that makes us change our whole lives to meet their needs, the love of family that makes us drop everything to take care of them, the love of community that makes us work tirelessly with broken hearts.

Perhaps humans’ core function is love. Love leads us to observe in a much deeper way than any other emotion. I think of how delightful it is to see something new in my lovers’ faces, something they may only know from inside as a feeling.

If love were the central practice of a new generation of organizers and spiritual leaders, it would have a massive impact on what was considered organizing. If the goal was to increase the love, rather than winning or dominating a constant opponent, I think we could actually imagine liberation from constant oppression. We would suddenly be seeing everything we do, everyone we meet, not through the tactical eyes of war, but through eyes of love. We would see that there’s no such thing as a blank canvas, an empty land or a new idea—but everywhere there is complex, ancient, fertile ground full of potential.

We would organize with the perspective that there is wisdom and experience and amazing story in the communities we love, and instead of starting up new ideas/organizations all the time, we would want to listen, support, collaborate, merge, and grow through fusion, not competition.

We would understand that the strength of our movement is in the strength of our relationships, which could only be measured by their depth. Scaling up would mean going deeper, being more vulnerable and more empathetic.

What does depth require from us, from me? In my longing for depth I have been re-rooting in the earth, in myself and my creativity, in my community, in my spiritual practices, honing in on work that is not only meaningful but feels joyful, listening with less and less judgment to the ideas and efforts of others, having visions that are long term.

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Why this Retired Professor Gives Driving Lessons for Free

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Why this Retired Professor Gives Driving Lessons for Free

The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members.

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Why this Retired Professor Gives Driving Lessons for Free

Retired professor Gil Howard, 82, stumbled into a second career as a driving instructor. But he’s no ordinary instructor. “He is the go-to teacher for women from Afghanistan, where driving is off limits for virtually all of them. In recent years, Mr. Howard has taught some 400 women in the 5,000-strong Afghan community based in Modesto, Calif., part of the Central Valley. … For many Americans, learning to drive is a rite of passage, a skill associated with freedom. For Afghan immigrants it can be a lifeline, especially in cities where distances are vast and public transportation limited. So when Mr. Howard realized the difference driving made to the Afghan women, teaching them became a calling, the instruction provided free of charge.” { read more }

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