Sangha of Auspicious Companions

Dementia at 48: a Woman Who Lives Her Promise

LaShonda Adams sits beside her 48-year-old husband, gently explaining to him — again — that she is his wife, that the people around him are his children, that he is home and safe. After a massive heart attack left him without oxygen to his brain for more than twenty minutes, he developed vascular dementia, erasing 24 years of their life together from his memory. “Sometimes you remember me, sometimes you don’t,” she tells him with remarkable tenderness as he experiences sundowning, a state of confusion that arrives with the evening. In her videos, Adams reminds him daily of their story, showing pictures, answering the same questions with unfailing patience, becoming the keeper of a love he can no longer hold. What viewers witness is not heartbreak performing for sympathy, but something rarer: a woman who promised “in sickness and in health” now living inside that vow, loving a man who doesn’t remember her but can still feel, in her calm voice and steady presence, that he is cherished.

Be The Change

Today, pause when someone asks how you are and answer with something true — even if small — about what you’re learning or curious about lately. It could be a documentary that fascinated you, a recipe you’re attempting, or a question you’ve been pondering. In a world that often reduces us to what we produce, sharing what genuinely interests you reminds both you and the listener that you contain multitudes beyond your job title or obligations.