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Secret To A Happy Marriage?

Weekly excerpt to help us remember the sacred.

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Weekly Reading Mar 16, 2026

Secret To A Happy Marriage?

–Ajahn Brahm

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69b848db21b67-2641.jpgWhy is it that many priests and monks perform marriage rites when they themselves are celibate? I have conducted many marriage ceremonies in my time. Once I even performed a celebrity wedding and had my photo appear in the Malaysian edition of the gossip magazine Hello!

During the ceremony, I have to give the dewy- eyed young couple some wise words of advice. So at the ceremony I tell them “The Secret” to a happy marriage.

At the right moment in the proceedings, usually after the rings have been exchanged, I look into the eyes of the new bride and tell her, “You are a married woman now. From this moment on, you must never think of yourself.” She immediately nods and smiles sweetly. Then I look at the groom and say, “You are now a married man. You also must not think of yourself anymore.” I don’t know what it is about guys, but the groom usually pauses for a few seconds before saying “Yes.”

Still looking at the groom, I continue, “And from this time on, you must never think of your wife.” Then quickly turning to the bride, I say to her, “And you must not think of your husband from now on.”

I enjoy watching the confused expressions appear on the couple’s faces. You don’t have to be a mind reader to know what they are thinking: “What is this crazy monk on about!”

Confusion is a very effective teaching device. Once people are engaged in trying to solve a riddle, then you can teach them the answer and they pay attention.

“Once you are married,” I explain, “you should not think of yourselves; otherwise you will be making no contribution to your marriage.” Also, once you are married, you should not always think of your partner; otherwise you will only be giving, giving, giving, until there’s nothing left in your marriage.

“Instead, once you are married, think only of ‘us.’ You are in this together.” The couple then turn to each other and smile.

They get it straight away. Marriage is about “us,” not about me, not about him, not about her. To make sure they understand “The Secret,” I ask them, “When any problem arises in your marriage, whose problem is it?” “Our problem,” they answer together. 🙂

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How do you relate to the notion that true partnership means thinking of “us” rather than oscillating between “me” and “you” – that it’s about being “in this together” rather than either self-focus or endless self-sacrifice? Can you share a personal story that reflects a time when focusing less on yourself or others led to surprising clarity or happiness in a relationship? What helps you cultivate the habit of letting go of self-centered thoughts and expectations to nurture a more harmonious and joyous connection with those you love?

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Is Consciousness Under Siege? Michael Pollan on Mental Freedom

DailyGood: News That Inspires – Mar 16, 2026

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Is Consciousness Under Siege? Michael Pollan on Mental Freedom
“This is what is wrong: we, only we, the humans, can retreat from ourselves and not be altogether here.”

— Jorie Graham

Is Consciousness Under Siege? Michael Pollan on Mental Freedom

Imagine coming home from school and confiding in a chatbot instead of your parents. In Michael Pollan’s latest exploration, he delves into the sneaky ways AI and social media algorithms encroach on our mental sanctuaries. As Pollan warns, our very consciousness is a “precious realm” under siege, with our autonomy chipped away by systems designed to monopolize our attention. His call for “consciousness hygiene” suggests meditation and mindful practices as bulwarks against these intrusions. A startling statistic reveals that 72% of teenagers now turn to AI for companionship, forming attachments to entities devoid of true consciousness. In a world where we can retreat from ourselves, Pollan challenges us to reclaim our mental sovereignty, urging us to “make it your noise.”

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DailyGood: News That Inspires – Mar 15, 2026

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“The giving of love is an education in itself.”

— Eleanor Roosevelt

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From the depths of silent forests to bustling city streets, our inspirations this week revealed the quiet power of unity and understanding.

This week, we explored how a woman’s promise to love turns into an enduring lesson in humanity, reminding us that love itself is transformative. In the quiet exchanges between introverts and extroverts, Eckhart Tolle shows us that creating space for grace allows transformation to unfold naturally. An 18-year-old’s reflections on peace reveal that despite our differences, common desires can bridge divides. In Morocco, abandoned cemeteries are revitalized, fostering cultural integration and mutual respect across faiths. Lao Tzu’s wisdom resonates through a serene forest, where nature’s unhurried pace achieves everything. Meanwhile, a teen-run hotline offers an empathetic ear, reassuring that vulnerability is a strength. The simple act of sharing blackberries reminds us of our innate need for connection, while a mysterious dog heroically guides rescuers, embodying the unexpected grace that often saves us. Together, these stories weave a narrative of hope, urging us to embrace love, transformation, and the quiet miracles that surround us.

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Every Afternoon, Construction Workers Stop What They’re Doing for One Little Girl

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Every Afternoon, Construction Workers Stop What They’re Doing for One Little Girl

Shine your light into the darkness. What you get in return can be priceless.

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Every Afternoon, Construction Workers Stop What They’re Doing for One Little Girl

Every afternoon around 3 p.m., a small group of construction workers in Cleveland climb to an upper floor of a building under construction and wave to 4-year-old Brinley Wyczalek in the Cleveland Clinic. It began in January when her father, Travis, shone a flashlight at the site where the Neurological Institute is being built, and someone flashed a light back. After the workers taped a sign, “Get Well Soon” and the family responded: “Thank you. Waiting for a heart,” the workers said: “Praying for you and your family. Keep fighting.” Then they organized donations including coloring books, games, a signed hard hat, and even a huge stuffed bear. “We build hospitals to help people heal,” said union carpenter Devan Nail. “But seeing Brinley made it personal. We wanted her to know she has a whole crew behind her.” While she waits for a transplant, Brinley is supported by a ventricular assist device that helps pump blood through her body. “Healing isn’t only physical,” said her pediatric cardiologist, Dr. Shahnawaz Amdani. “Human connection matters deeply.”

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Today, notice someone who might be waiting — in a hospital, a care facility, behind a counter, in line, or even just at home — and find a simple way to let them know they’ve been seen. It doesn’t require grand gestures; wave through a window, leave an unexpected note, or simply pause long enough to acknowledge someone’s presence with your full attention, transforming an ordinary moment into a reminder that they matter.

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How One Teenager Is Saving India’s Silently Dying Ponds.

DailyGood: News That Inspires – Mar 14, 2026

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How One Teenager Is Saving India's Silently Dying Ponds.
“Trust is built the long way; by showing up again and again, doing the unglamorous work, and strengthening local systems instead of trying to replace them.”

— Dev Karan

How One Teenager Is Saving India’s Silently Dying Ponds.

For Indian environmental activist Dev Karan, 17, a Young Activist Summit laureate for 2025, it all began with a village pond that no longer looked like a pond. It made climate change real for him, and inspired him to found Pondora, which fosters community stewardship of vulnerable water sources, in 2024. While India has had major efforts to restore water bodies, ongoing maintenance has been a problem. Pondora wanted a model where a pond stays alive because a community stays involved. Students are trained as ‘Pond Ambassadors’ who monitor water health, using a smart pond maintenance kit that combines electronic sensors with simple chemical test strips and is connected to a phone so readings can be logged. Pond committees are formed under the Village Council structure, so responsibility lies with local systems. This approach is a replicable model for water ecosystem restoration, one pond at a time. It validates the idea that small, local solutions deserve to be taken seriously if they are built to last.

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Think about a natural resource in your community that’s being neglected — a park, stream, or green space. This week, take one small step toward its care: pick up litter, learn about its history, or talk to a neighbor about its importance. Like Dev’s work with ponds, lasting change begins when we move from awareness to consistent, unglamorous action in our own backyards.

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Dementia at 48: a Woman Who Lives Her Promise

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Dementia at 48: a Woman Who Lives Her Promise
“The giving of love is an education in itself.”

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Dementia at 48: a Woman Who Lives Her Promise

LaShonda Adams sits beside her 48-year-old husband, gently explaining to him — again — that she is his wife, that the people around him are his children, that he is home and safe. After a massive heart attack left him without oxygen to his brain for more than twenty minutes, he developed vascular dementia, erasing 24 years of their life together from his memory. “Sometimes you remember me, sometimes you don’t,” she tells him with remarkable tenderness as he experiences sundowning, a state of confusion that arrives with the evening. In her videos, Adams reminds him daily of their story, showing pictures, answering the same questions with unfailing patience, becoming the keeper of a love he can no longer hold. What viewers witness is not heartbreak performing for sympathy, but something rarer: a woman who promised “in sickness and in health” now living inside that vow, loving a man who doesn’t remember her but can still feel, in her calm voice and steady presence, that he is cherished.

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Today, pause when someone asks how you are and answer with something true — even if small — about what you’re learning or curious about lately. It could be a documentary that fascinated you, a recipe you’re attempting, or a question you’ve been pondering. In a world that often reduces us to what we produce, sharing what genuinely interests you reminds both you and the listener that you contain multitudes beyond your job title or obligations.

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Procrastination

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Mar 12, 2026
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All of us avoid certain tasks. We avoid some out of fear, frustration or perfectionism. This delightful short animated video gives a chance to chuckle lovingly at the strategies we use to procrastinate and the payoffs we might be getting.
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Where Introverts and Extroverts Find Common Ground

DailyGood: News That Inspires – Mar 12, 2026

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Where Introverts and Extroverts Find Common Ground
“You cannot transform yourself, and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else. All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter.”

— Eckhart Tolle

Where Introverts and Extroverts Find Common Ground

Some insights from an author and psychologist may help introverts and extroverts better understand one another in order to improve their relationships. “Introverts are quieter, more introspective, deliberate, really into alone time. Extroverts are more talkative, outgoing, energetic, and very into socializing.” Most people fall somewhere in between the extremes depending on context and age. One suggestion is talking to one another about needs and issues, and expressing appreciation for the positive impact of the other’s behavior. Another suggestion is a code phrase, gesture, or symbol. For instance, the author “has a bracelet she wears to remind herself to listen and not just rush to fill the silence.” She says, “It’s my little anchor.”

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Create a code phrase, gesture, or symbol such as a bracelet as a reminder to increase your awareness of one of your default behaviors as a way to make space for others’ forms of expression.

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At 18, Peace for Me Is …

DailyGood: News That Inspires – Mar 11, 2026

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At 18, Peace for Me Is ...
“Our differences may sometimes divide us, but a shared desire for peace has the power to bring us back.”

— Miki Kawamura

At 18, Peace for Me Is …

Miki Kawamura, founder and director of the Youth Peace Ambassadors program, learned something significant at the rural Japanese school she attended until 2025. Seeing two students from completely different political backgrounds brought together by working on a single multilingual art installation about peace, she realized that while our differences may sometimes divide us, a shared desire for peace can make conflicts part of the path toward something rather than the end of the road. When YPA launched a global video collection campaign for Expo 2025 in Osaka and 1,200 video messages about ‘what peace means’ arrived from 70 countries within two weeks, she realized that young people had answers — they just lacked a platform. “I want my work to help people transform inwardly, connect outwardly, and co-create a world where the leading question isn’t ‘How do we win?’ but ‘How do we belong to each other?’” It starts with two people sitting side by side, looking at something beautiful they built together, she says.

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Begin within. Consider an aspect of your life in which you are not at peace. Create an intention to create a path to peace around it. See the next stone.

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How Morocco’s Abandoned Cemeteries Give New Life Across Faiths

DailyGood: News That Inspires – Mar 10, 2026

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How Morocco’s Abandoned Cemeteries Give New Life Across Faiths
““We are pairing cultural integration with livelihood development,. And it really works. There’s respect for one another. The mixing, the experience is changing people’s points of view.””

— Yossef Ben-Meir, president of the High Atlas Foundation.

How Morocco’s Abandoned Cemeteries Give New Life Across Faiths

Abandoned cemeteries in Morocco are opening hearts between Jewish and Muslim people in a unique interfaith project that began in 2012 when the Moroccan Jewish community allowed 36-year-old Abderahim Baddah to use land beside the Akrich cemetery to cultivate crops while restoring the site. Now that once abandoned 700-year-old Jewish cemetery is home to a plant nursery run by local Muslims that gives the community 46,000 fruit and nut tree saplings and has brought the village other benefits such as solar panels, a water well, and a women’s weaving cooperative. Thanks to the nonprofit High Atlas Foundation, the idea is spreading and many old Jewish burial sites are being loaned for free to establish organic fruit tree and medicinal plant nurseries that benefit Muslim villagers. Nearly 300,000 tree saplings, including almond, fig, pomegranate, olive and carob, have been grown and supplied to 1,500 farming families since 2012.

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Find a land-based project to work on with people of other faiths. Think outside the box when it comes to economic development.

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