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Spotlight On Kindness: All Of The Same Kind

Physicists have long known the interconnection of universal matter and molecules – everything (animate and inanimate) is made up of the same elemental building blocks arising from an ancient generation of stars. “We are all of the same kind” yet we spend all our time dwelling on minute differences. Let’s imagine how different our society would be if we focused on our sameness instead? – Ameeta

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Editor’s Note: Physicists have long known the interconnection of universal matter and molecules – everything (animate and inanimate) is made up of the same elemental building blocks arising from an ancient generation of stars. “We are all of the same kind” yet we spend all our time dwelling on minute differences. Let’s imagine how different our society would be if we focused on our sameness instead? – Ameeta
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Paying It Forward: An Interview with Nipun Mehta

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November 19, 2019

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Paying It Forward: An Interview with Nipun Mehta

We release self — a prime engine of suffering– when we give from the heart.

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Paying It Forward: An Interview with Nipun Mehta

“For more than 20 years, Nipun Mehta and his parents have been opening his doors to friends and strangers every Wednesday evening, creating a space for people to sit in circle together, meditate, share thoughts, and enjoy a meal. The invitation is to “wake up to wisdom in stillness and community,” a simple gesture of service and connection that now takes place in people’s living rooms across the globe. All of Nipun’s life work comes front this same place of generosity, be it Karma Kitchen, a restaurant chain where the meal you oat is gifted to you from a previous customer; Kindspring, a space to practice small acts of kindness and share inspiration with others; or Laddership Circles, a transformational program for people to dive into gift economy practices and learn to lead from within. Under the umbrella organization, Service Space, all of these projects not only seek to. but are, manifesting the gift economy — an economy based on generosity and abundance rather than scarcity and fear.” { read more }

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Awakin Weekly: Trapped By Views

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Trapped By Views
by Ajahn Pasanno

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2397.jpgWe recognize that whatever comes up is just a mental formation within the mind, just a thought or just a perception. We can have a perception about something and realize that it’s impermanent, unsatisfactory, and not-self. Sometimes we can act on views or perceptions if they have a usefulness at that particular time, but we are not building our home or sense of self within that.

To tie that in again with loving-kindness: it’s being very kind to yourself and others because it doesn’t take very long to recollect the last time you were at loggerheads with somebody because of a particular view. You think about it afterward and wonder, "Why did I even go there? What was the point of that anyway?"

If we are not trapped by views, usually we can respond quite skillfully, and that is exceedingly useful. Reflect on the sense of non-contention as a basis for loving-kindness. There is an idiom in the scriptural language that describes this mental state of attaching to views: "This alone is true, anything else is wrong." It isn’t as if we have consciously thought this out or even articulated it within the mind, but it is there. We can change our views, but at that particular moment it feels like, "This is right and everything else is wrong."

As soon as we are in that kind of position, it’s the basis for contention and conflict. It’s the basis for feeling irritation and aversion, whether short or protracted. Ill will is going to be attendant on holding that particular view.

Try to make this very conscious through the cultivation of loving-kindness so as not to allow the formation of views to be so strong. Have a sense of loving-kindness and well-wishing towards yourself because you are usually the first person to suffer when you are tightly locked into a particular view. Then, of course, others suffer as well.

The active application of loving-kindness is not just a nice emotion that we are able to generate sometimes while we are sitting on our cushions. It’s a very practical application of how we can interface with the world around us and not be trapped by fixed views. It lays the basis for peace and clarity.

We can let go — we can let go of a mood, irritation, or aversion; we can let go of a view that’s starting to arise; we can let go of a particular perspective of how I think it has to be; we can let go of sense desires; and we can let go of the whole construct of "I am." It’s that letting go that allows us to access and experience a real peace.

About the Author: Ajahn Pasanno is the abbott at the Abhayagiri Forest Monastery. Excerpt above from Abundant, Exalted, Immeasurable.’

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