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Spotlight On Kindness: We Are All One

What if you are part of everyone and everyone is part of you? Sages from all religions have said for millennia that we are all interconnected beings. Now quantum physics tells us we are all made up of the same subatomic particles which are in constant flux and that we all exchange particles with each other constantly. If we knew that everyone was just a part of us, would we be kinder? – Ameeta

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Editor’s Note: What if you are part of everyone and everyone is part of you? Sages from all religions have said for millennia that we are all interconnected beings. Now quantum physics tells us we are all made up of the same subatomic particles which are in constant flux and that we all exchange particles with each other constantly. If we knew that everyone was just a part of us, would we be kinder? – Ameeta
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When Things Fall Apart

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March 13, 2018

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When Things Fall Apart

Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.

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When Things Fall Apart

Just when we think we’ve escaped and found firm ground to stand on in a painful moment, Pema Chodron suggests that we let go into the difficulty of our situation and rest there with an open mind instead. In her book “When Things Fall Apart”, Pema Chodron gently guides us through the dark places in our lives and shows us that we are strong enough to live fully in those moments. Rather than running in search of solutions that will make our pain go away, in her book she offers insights to show us that when we befriend ourselves and offer compassion, we will discover an inner awareness that brings freedom, and even relief from suffering. { read more }

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Rather than trying to escape, try staying with something difficult that happens today. Breathe into it and observe the movement of life in that moment.

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Awakin Weekly: What You Do Afterwards

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What You Do Afterwards
by Keith Sawyer

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2289.jpgCreativity is all about what you do afterwards.

I’m thinking about something that Miles Davis said about jazz improvisation: "It’s not the note you play that’s the wrong note–it’s the note you play afterwards that makes it right or wrong."

In improvisation, you don’t know what an action means until later. The group creates meaning, by responding and building on that action. This happens all the time in improv theater, and it’s what gives it such creative power. I call it retroactive interpretation. In improv, actors intentionally speak lines of dialogue that are ambiguous, utterances that can be interpreted in multiple ways. Actors do this on purpose–not because they’re lazy thinkers, or they’re just trying to fill up time. Improvising these ambiguous actions takes a lot of creativity. It’s not easy to say something that opens up possibilities for the scene, and doesn’t close down possible futures, but something that also provides enough specifics to drive a scene forward, to give other actors something to work with. Actors know that the improvised dialogue that follows their action will soon provide a meaning to what they did.

I think this is so fascinating! Imagine: To act, without knowing what your action means. To act, trusting the group to interpret your action later. To act, while you relinquish control over what your own action means.

This isn’t what most of us do in everyday life. When you say something, you own it. You get to say what it means. If someone else interprets it differently, you jump in and correct them. To do improv, you need to completely change the way you approach conversation. You have to give away power and control, to the conversation itself. The conversation creates, not the individual speakers. The conversation takes on a life of its own. Meaning emerges from the collective, sequential, unfolding utterances of each speaker.

In group improvisation, no single person gets to decide what everything means. No single person even gets to decide what their own actions mean. The group creates, not the individual.

About the Author: Excerpted from here. Keith Sawyer is the author of Group Genius.

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How do you relate to the notion of acting while relinquishing control over what your action means? Can you share a personal story of a time you were able to act while letting go of your ownership of that action and its meaning? What helps you be mindful of how you can open up possibility with your actions?
david doane wrote: There are times when my action is my right action, simply an expression of what feels right to me in that moment. In so doing, my action is meaningful to me because I’m being true to myse…
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a wrote: amen. …
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