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Spotlight On Kindness: Building Non-Judgement

Judgement is both an innate and learned response. We have a natural instinct to judge our surroundings as part of our protective fight or flight mechanism but judging other people just by how they look is now less a survival response, and more a learned response. Can we teach our kids to be less judgmental and increase their empathy and compassion? These stories indicate we surely can. –Ameeta

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Editor’s Note: Judgement is both an innate and learned response. We have a natural instinct to judge our surroundings as part of our protective fight or flight mechanism but judging other people just by how they look is now less a survival response, and more a learned response. Can we teach our kids to be less judgmental and increase their empathy and compassion? These stories indicate we surely can. –Ameeta
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Joan Halifax: Buoyancy Rather than Burnout

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Joan Halifax: Buoyancy Rather than Burnout

We’re in an era of great breakdown, environmentally and socially and psychologically, and when systems break down, the ones who have the resilience to actually repair themselves, they move to a higher order of organization.

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Joan Halifax: Buoyancy Rather than Burnout

It’s easy to despair at all the bad news and horrific pictures that come at us daily. But Zen teacher and medical anthropologist Roshi Joan Halifax says this is a form of empathy that works against us. There’s such a thing as pathological altruism. She offers nourishing wisdom to help all of us overwhelmed by the suffering in the world. { read more }

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Roshi Halifax has said, “I am not a ‘nice’ Buddhist. I’m much more interested in a kind of plain rice, get-down-in-the-street Buddhism.” Practice a deeper form of kindness this week, less everyday niceness and more open tolerance and helpfulness to those in need. Practice a deeper form of kindness this week, less everyday niceness and more open tolerance and helpfulness to those in need.

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Awakin Weekly: Does Life Have A Purpose?

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Does Life Have A Purpose?
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Why do you maintain that Life has no purpose? If Life has no purpose, the individual life, even in pure being, can have no purpose either; because individual perfection can have a meaning only when there is a purpose in creation.

KRISHNAMURTI:

Life by which I mean, that life which is truth, in which there is no division, in which all things consummate, on which all things depend, in which all things exist that life has no purpose, because it is.

For that which is, there cannot be a purpose, because it is all inclusive. In that exist both time and space, and individual existence; but individual existence, in which totality is not yet realized, has a purpose. That purpose is the realization of this totality.

Individuality is not an end in itself because individuality is imperfection. It is burdened with incompleteness; and so the magnification of that individuality, to however great a degree, will still remain individuality. That which is imperfect cannot by magnification or multiplication be made perfect.

So the true purpose of individual existence is to realize this unity of things, this reality, in which there is no sense of object and subject, “you” and “I”, in which there are no reactions, but only the sense of pure being which is positive, dynamic. (When I use the word “positive”, I do not exclude the negative). This life is in all things in this table, as in the most highly cultured (hu)man.

But the individual in whom there is separation, in whom there is distinction of object and subject, in whom there is division, because of his limitation, his imperfection, must fulfill himself in perfection, in incorruptibility.

Therefore individual existence has a purpose, but life has no purpose.

About the Author: by J. Krishnamurti, from a gathering at Oomen, Holland, 1930

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