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When You Listen To A Child

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November 26, 2013

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When You Listen To A Child

And when you believe your voice holds value … well, let’s just say, that belief can make a life changing difference.

– Rachel Macy Stafford –

When You Listen To A Child

“Having a parent that listens creates a child who believes he or she has a voice that matters in this world,” says Rachel Macy Stafford, a young mother who, in this digital age, has made the life changing decision to go completely ‘hands free’. She did so to ensure her children always knew, that their voice in this world matters. “Because,” she continues, “someday our children will find themselves in a difficult situation and they’ll have a choice — either to suffer in silence or speak up. And perhaps that is the moment they will remember your eyes, the nodding of your head, your thoughtful response. And suddenly they will be reminded that their voice holds value.” Read more about the “Hands Free” movement — and how it has the potential to be transformative. { read more }

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Experiment with setting down your electronic devices for a period, and really tuning in to that which matters most to you.

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Awakin Weekly: Art And The Practice Of Being Yourself

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Art And The Practice Of Being Yourself
by Stanley Kunitz

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tow2.jpgThere isn’t only one kind of artist in the world, one way of becoming an artist. There is, above all, a need to articulate your own source of being so you will recognize the source and know who you are. How could you be an artist if you didn’t explore your own inner life? There is something in the human being I would call, in the most general terms, a need to transcend the corporeal being and become a person identified by his or her individuating qualities…

As Blake put it, “We must create a system or be enslaved by another man’s.” You have to practice being yourself and not merely exist as a number in a world of billions of numbers…

The creative gift has very complex origins; you’re accumulating and digesting experience, trying to discover its meanings, instead of stuffing it into a closet and moving on to whatever happens to you next. Every experience you have is a lesson in how to live for the next one and if you never learn anything from the experiences of the past, you never mature either as a person or as an artist.

My sense is that you’re born with a more or less empty vault. Perhaps the first experiences are even before that, in the womb, and the vault begins to fill with jewels or painful memories. Each memory of a disastrous experience is there, not only as a wound but as a warning. You have to learn how to recognize the return of the same dilemma you’ve been through before. You have to look at the tag and the price.

Different kinds of memories enter into the making of the self, but among those, there are a few absolutely central memories. They may be traumatic, but they are the crystallization of the creative person’s treasure house…

In a sense, all creativity is a process of giving meaning to what is on a universal scale meaningless. The plant and the poet and the gardener collect these disparate, disorganized raindrops, sun rays, passing birds and make something formal. Creativity gives form to what is in nature ambiguous, suggestive. Language wasn’t there at the beginning. It was created after people had gone through all sorts of experiences and needed to become expressive in order to give meaning to life…

As an artist, you are a representative human being – you have to believe that in order to give your life over to that effort to create something of value. You’re not doing it only to satisfy your own impulses or needs; there is a social imperative. If you solve your problems and speak of them truly, you are of help to others, that’s all. And it becomes a moral obligation.

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Art And The Practice Of Being Yourself
How do you practice “being yourself and not merely exist as a number in a world of billions of numbers”? How do you relate to creativity being a process by which you give meaning to what is meaningless in the universal scale? Can you share a personal story of value-creation out of a moral obligation?
Conrad P Pritscher wrote: Excellent article. Paradoxically I practice being myself by not practicing but rather by being myself with my flaws and warts.. Paradoxically again, being creative is not being creative when on…
david doane wrote: You practice being yourself by being yourself. I don’t think there is another way. I may not be good at it and it may be risky, but it’s worth it. And the alternative is to not be m…
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