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Quote of the Week | Cleaning Your Space

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Dalai Lama Quote of the Week

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September 14, 2012

CLEANING YOUR SPACE

The environment where you are doing the meditation should be properly cleaned. While cleaning, you should cultivate the motivation that since you are engaged in the task of accumulating great stores of merit by inviting the hosts of buddhas and bodhisattvas to this environment, it is important to have a clean place. You should see that all external dirt and dust around you is basically a manifestation of the faults and stains within your own mind. You should see that the most important aim is to purge these stains and faults from within your mind. Therefore, as you cleanse the environment, think that you are also purifying your mind. Develop the very strong thought that by cleaning this place you are inviting the hosts of buddhas and bodhisattvas who are the most supreme merit field, and that you will subsequently engage in a path that will enable you to purge your mind of the stains and delusions.

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New Zealand’s River That Is A Person

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September 13, 2012

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New Zealand's River That Is A Person

We must begin thinking like a river if we are to leave a legacy of beauty and life for future generations.

– David Brower –

New Zealand’s River That Is A Person

From the dawn of history, and in cultures throughout the world, humans have been prone to imbue Earth’s life-giving rivers with qualities of life itself — a fitting tribute, no doubt, to the wellsprings upon which our past (and present) civilizations so heavily rely. But while modern thought has come to regard these essential waterways more clinically over the centuries, that might all be changing once again. Meet the Whanganui. You might call it a river, but in the eyes of the law, it has the standings of a person. { read more }

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Kindness Daily: Cost of a Miracle

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Cost of a Miracle September 12, 2012 – Posted by RKacholia
A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet.

She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times, even.. The total had to be exactly perfect.. No chance here for mistakes.

Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall’s Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment.

Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

‘And what do you want?’ the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice.. I’m talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven’t seen in ages,’ he said without waiting for a reply to his question..

‘Well, I want to talk to you about my brother,’ Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. ‘He’s really, really sick….and I want to buy a miracle.’

‘I beg your pardon?’ said the pharmacist.

‘His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?’

‘We don’t sell miracles here, little girl. I’m sorry but I can’t help you,’ the pharmacist said, softening a little.

‘Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn’t enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs.’

The pharmacist’s brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, ‘What kind of a miracle does your brother need?’

‘I don’t know, ‘Tess replied with her eyes welling up I just know he’s really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can’t pay for it, so I want to use my money..’

‘How much do you have?’ asked the man from Chicago .

‘One dollar and eleven cents,’Tess answered barely audible.

‘And it’s all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.’

‘Well, what a coincidence,’ smiled the man. ‘A dollar and eleven cents-the exact price of a miracle for little brothers.’

He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said ‘Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let’s see if I have the miracle you need.’

That well-dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery.

The operation was completed free of charge and it wasn’t long until Andrew was home again and doing well.

Mom and Dad were happily talking about he chain of events that had led them to
this place.

‘That surgery,’ her Mom whispered. ‘was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?’

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost…..one dollar and eleven cents…plus the faith of a little child.

In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need.. A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law.

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Quote of the Week | Your Fixed Identity

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September 12, 2012

YOUR FIXED IDENTITY

In Buddhism we call the notion of a fixed identity “ego clinging.” It’s how we try to put solid ground under our feet in an ever-shifting world. Meditation practice starts to erode that fixed identity. As you sit, you begin to see yourself with more clarity, and you notice how attached you are to your opinions about yourself. Often the first blow to the fixed identity is precipitated by a crisis. When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.

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This Larger Thing in the World

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This Larger Thing in the World

To think creatively, we must be able to look afresh at what we normally take for granted

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This Larger Thing in the World

Mildred Howard sees things differently. Over 20 years ago, she created “Rene di Rosa”, a house made out of glass bottles. That was her first of several bottle houses that have each made powerful, beautiful political and social statements. As an artist, community organizer, and leader, Mildred’s colourful life embodies radical change. In this interview with Works & Conversations, Mildred speaks about her current work with the Edible Schoolyard and how “this larger thing in the world” is building a strong foundation for both inner and outer transformation. { read more }

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Kindness Daily: Gift for the Cashier

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Gift for the Cashier September 11, 2012 – Posted by bjames3061
My friends and I recently returned from our annual week at the beach. While we were there, a couple of us needed to pick up a few items at the grocery store.

As we were checking out, the cashier complimented me on my necklace. I thanked her, and she asked where I bought it. I had gotten it at the department store just down the street, and told her that it was on sale for 40% off. My friend suggested that she should walk over and purchase one during her break. But the cashier said she couldn’t afford it right now.

As we left the grocery store, I told my friend I was tempted to buy one for her. She agreed, and offered to pay for half. So we went back to the department store and picked out a matching necklace for the cashier. As we paid for it, the sales lady noticed that I was wearing the same one.

"You must really like this necklace," she commented.

We told her who we were buying it for, and after it was gift wrapped, we addressed it to the cashier at the grocery store, since I remembered it from her name tag.

To our surprise, the sales lady knew her!

"She is a very sweet lady," she remarked, "But she is going through a rough patch right now and has to drive a long way to work. With gas prices so high, it sure isn’t easy."

With excitement, we took the gift back to the grocery store and stood in line at the same cash register. When our time came we just handed her the gift. She knew immediately what we had done and was so thankful.

As we drove home today, we discussed how that random act of kindness probably meant more to us than it did to the recipient. It feels so good to do nice things for others. I grew up poor, with a single mother and two sisters. We had no help from our dad, and I never dreamed as a little girl that I would be able to help others.

Now, I try to do that on a regular basis, and it is so very rewarding!

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Two Mothers & Their Brave Friendship: A 9/11 Story

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Two Mothers & Their Brave Friendship: A 9/11 Story

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

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Two Mothers & Their Brave Friendship: A 9/11 Story

Two mothers. Phyllis Rodriguez lost her son, Greg, in the attack on the World Trade Center. Aicha el-Wafi’s son, Zacarias Moussaoui, was an al Qaeda terrorist convicted of conspiring to commit the attack. When they met in November of 2002, Phyllis didn’t see Aicha as her enemy; she saw a woman experiencing much the same grief as she was. “Our suffering is equal. Yet I’m treated with sympathy; she is treated with hostility,” says Phyllis. In their courageous attempts to find peace the two women formed an unlikely friendship that has now become a powerful symbol of healing and reconciliation. Watch them share their story hand-in-hand in this moving TED talk. { read more }

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InnerNet Weekly: Merry Go Around

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Merry Go Around
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tow1.jpgWelcome! Welcome to the fair! I can see, you’re already sitting on the merry-go-round! It’s great how you are driving! You have a sleek car, with an accelerator and a brake. But most of all, you have a steering wheel, which you can spin around, and that’s just what you are doing; though strangely, as much as you steer it, or put your foot down on the throttle, or jam on the brakes, the car keeps travelling in the same direction.

This is how your ‘I’ (the so-called ‘ego’) works. It steers to the left, it steers to the right, and is never fully content with the result. It thinks, “I’ll take a look at the others. How are they driving? How is that guy doing over there? That one is definitely shifting his weight more in the curve. I think I’ll try that too.” But nothing changes. The car keeps on going round and round.

Every now and then the merry-go-round stops. Short break. The Tibetans call this ‘bardo’. Then you look for another vehicle. “Let’s try the horse. I’ll ride for a while. Maybe that’s my destiny!” Very smart on your part! Or perhaps to be truly wise, you take the small scooter because all this driving has tired you out and left you full of humility.

During all this steering your ego ripens tremendously. And if by chance you were aiming in the same direction as the merry-go-round, then you can triumph: “Wow, I did that really well! Now, I think I’ve got it!” Now you’ve discovered how all this works. “I have complete control. Look here!” You are in harmony with the cosmos, in harmony with creation. An ego which is so coherent, steers in the same direction as the merry-go-round is moving. “Look, how I can steer! The entire merry-go-round moves because I am steering this way! Here, look at me!”

If you have mastered the art in this incomparable way, then you can even tell others how they should drive. “This is the way you have to do it, like me!”

Now you are a fully-awakened driver. “Follow him!” exclaim a few others enthusiastically. The best thing would be if you just take over the entire bus: “Get on board here, everyone, and sit behind me! I am one with the merry-go-round!” Then you are a guru.

If you want to be active more quietly, you can of course take on other important jobs such as driving the fire engine, or the ambulance. Or you may just follow the ambulance, to be on the safe side!

In all this it is important, that you keep the overview. That you press the gas pedal at the right moment and break at the right moment, and most of all that you steer with great skill. That helps others. In this way you not only keep your vehicle perfectly on the path, but you also contribute to the successful ride of the entire merry-go-round! If only everyone would drive like this! You have everything under control.

Until one day, you accidentally let go of the steering wheel. Ooops! Now you are surprised. It also works on its own! This thing drives by itself! Exactly, the Self is driving. You don’t have to strain yourself. You can lean back and enjoy your Self. It always drives directly to happiness.

–Karl Renz

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What has been your experience with the reflection that the Self “always drives directly to happiness?” The author contrasts the more visible driver to the quiet driver – how do you choose who you want to be? Can you share a personal experience where you found yourself aiming in the same direction as the merry-go-round (or united with it)?
Austin Correia MSFS wrote: As I read this merry-go-round… the first thing I saw was a round wheel in my hands, which is different from the steering handle/s I operate with on my motor-bike…

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Swamy Vigyananand wrote: The fundamental fault with this analogy is that (a) A Merry-go-Round is static, passive amusement with circular repetition, i.e., no direction! (b) Life is a linear graph against time where the …
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rainbowSmiles wrote: This piece is beautiful as in a subtle way, giving merri go around example, it presents life’s ultimate truths. Do I really need to strain myself or should I even feel that I am driving and …
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Year of Dancing with Life – Week 49

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10 Life-Changing Perspectives On Anger

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10 Life-Changing Perspectives On Anger

Consider how much more you often suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.

– Marcus Antonius –

10 Life-Changing Perspectives On Anger

We all have had our moments of impatience, rage and frustration…but how do these moments affect our lives? Get curious about anger, and you just might discover an untapped well of vital energy that improves your life circumstances and wakes you up to the whole of life. This article offers 10 powerful perspectives on anger. { read more }

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